Have you been told that in order to use the Law of Attraction to its fullest potential you should think positive thoughts about what you want your life to be like. Once you feel sure that you will achieve your goal then your reality will begin to move towards that goal. How can you be positive and optimistic all the time though? What if you feel damaged or filled with doubts and fears? What if your nature simply isn't very positive all the time? Are you relegated to living a life where your dreams won't come true?
It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?
It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.
The trick is to use these powerful negative emotions which are already running through your head. How can you turn things around and allow your fear to propel you towards those things that you know will make your life better? Even though you know that your fears might not be based upon reality, when these emotions wage war on your mind and your life, it might be easier to use them instead of denying or fighting with your emotions. When you're having a bad day and you're feeling down, why not allow those thoughts free reign and test out this theory?
Maybe there is someone in your life that you are attracted to. You wish that this person would fall in love with you. This would make you very happy and having a loving relationship is something that you want in your life. Of course, doubts and fear sometimes overwhelm you and you worry that it will never happen. You are almost expecting that rejection on a daily basis and you feel horrible every morning when you wake up.
Instead of fighting against the flow of emotions that this dream brings out in you, why not go with the flow and harness the power of these thoughts. Let fear bring that special someone into your life. Instead of thinking about rejection think about what else might happen if you were to get into a relationship. Maybe the object of your desire could fall so deeply in love that they cause problems in your life. Perhaps their love smothers you and they become jealous of your friends. Perhaps you enjoy spending some time alone and you worry that their love will become so consuming that there won't be time to do things alone as you are accustomed to. Throw every fear you can think of at the thought of having someone fall madly and passionately in love with you and you will be using fear and doubt to bring love into your life.
Surely, your goal is to make your dreams come true using the Law of Attraction and positive thoughts. You should still stick to that regimen when you're feeling positive and optimistic. Continue to spend time visualizing and meditating about your dreams and goals but for those times when negative thoughts might make you feel like you can't focus, turn them around. Try using those negative thoughts or those bad days to continue to propel you towards your goals. Stop beating yourself up because you feel somehow unfit or weak. We all have bad days and negative thoughts. Life is all about how we harness those thoughts and make them work for us instead of against us to bring into reality the life that we truly deserve.
It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?
It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.
The trick is to use these powerful negative emotions which are already running through your head. How can you turn things around and allow your fear to propel you towards those things that you know will make your life better? Even though you know that your fears might not be based upon reality, when these emotions wage war on your mind and your life, it might be easier to use them instead of denying or fighting with your emotions. When you're having a bad day and you're feeling down, why not allow those thoughts free reign and test out this theory?
Maybe there is someone in your life that you are attracted to. You wish that this person would fall in love with you. This would make you very happy and having a loving relationship is something that you want in your life. Of course, doubts and fear sometimes overwhelm you and you worry that it will never happen. You are almost expecting that rejection on a daily basis and you feel horrible every morning when you wake up.
Instead of fighting against the flow of emotions that this dream brings out in you, why not go with the flow and harness the power of these thoughts. Let fear bring that special someone into your life. Instead of thinking about rejection think about what else might happen if you were to get into a relationship. Maybe the object of your desire could fall so deeply in love that they cause problems in your life. Perhaps their love smothers you and they become jealous of your friends. Perhaps you enjoy spending some time alone and you worry that their love will become so consuming that there won't be time to do things alone as you are accustomed to. Throw every fear you can think of at the thought of having someone fall madly and passionately in love with you and you will be using fear and doubt to bring love into your life.
Surely, your goal is to make your dreams come true using the Law of Attraction and positive thoughts. You should still stick to that regimen when you're feeling positive and optimistic. Continue to spend time visualizing and meditating about your dreams and goals but for those times when negative thoughts might make you feel like you can't focus, turn them around. Try using those negative thoughts or those bad days to continue to propel you towards your goals. Stop beating yourself up because you feel somehow unfit or weak. We all have bad days and negative thoughts. Life is all about how we harness those thoughts and make them work for us instead of against us to bring into reality the life that we truly deserve.
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